This Is Not a Self-Development Course
This training is not about becoming a better version of yourself.
It is about understanding the structure that creates your reactions.
Every emotional trigger follows a pattern.
Most people live inside that pattern.
Few can recognise it.
Even fewer can guide someone else through it.
This program is about that ability.
The Work
At the centre of every reaction
there is a moment.
A subtle junction.
A point where you either:
React from conditioning
orRespond from awareness
That moment is the ChoicePoint.
This training develops your capacity to remain stable in that moment.
Not only for yourself -
but in the presence of another.
What You Will Learn
You will learn to:
Recognise patterns in real time
Identify projection and withdraw from it
Stabilise your nervous system under emotional charge
Stay present without collapsing or controlling
Understand masculine and feminine energetic structures
Guide others through emotional transmutation
Hold space without absorbing or reacting
This is not theoretical knowledge.
It is applied awareness.
Practitioner Level Means This
You are recognised as a ChoicePoint Practitioner when you can:
Stay centred while someone is triggered
Remain neutral under projection
Guide someone back to ownership
Interrupt unconscious pattern loops
Operate from process rather than story
This is embodied competence.
Not intellectual understanding.
Who This Is For
This training is for:
Coaches
Therapists
Facilitators
Leaders
Parents
Individuals who feel called to guide others
You do not need experience.
But you do need responsibility.
This is not passive learning.
It requires presence and devotion.
What others have to say about this process
Structure of the 3 Months
The training unfolds in three phases:
Phase 1 - Pattern Recognition
Understanding how conditioning forms and repeats.
Phase 2 - Transmutation
Learning to process emotion without projection.
Phase 3 - Facilitation
Guiding others through the same process.
Weekly live sessions.
Practical application.
Supervised integration.
No information overload.
Depth over volume.
“We are all just walking each other home“
The Outcome
By the end of this training you will:
Experience emotional stability under pressure
Understand the architecture of reaction
Recognise patterns immediately
Facilitate others without absorbing their emotion
Create from awareness rather than reactivity
You will not become someone else.
You will become steady.
Who we are
This work did not begin as a method.
It emerged through direct observation of pattern, projection and emotional collapse - in ourselves and in the people we worked with.
Over years of applied practice, facilitation and deep relational work, the ChoicePoint framework was refined into a precise, repeatable process.
It is not philosophy.
It is lived structure.
Vincent Cubitt
Vincent’s 30+ years of this work focuses on structural awareness, masculine and feminine polarity, and the architecture of consciousness.
His approach is direct, precise and uncompromising.
He trains individuals to recognise projection in real time and return to process without delay.
This is structural integrity.
Aris Wijnen
Aris brings depth in relational embodiment, nervous system awareness and
emotional integration.
Her work stabilises the human element inside the structure.
Where pattern meets vulnerability - she teaches how to remain present without defence.
This is embodied coherence.
Enrollment
Program begins: April 1st 2026
Duration: 3 Months
Limited intake.