This Is Not a Self-Development Course

This training is not about becoming a better version of yourself.

It is about understanding the structure that creates your reactions.

Every emotional trigger follows a pattern.
Most people live inside that pattern.

Few can recognise it.
Even fewer can guide someone else through it.

This program is about that ability.

The Work

At the centre of every reaction
there is a moment.

A subtle junction.

A point where you either:

  • React from conditioning
    or

  • Respond from awareness

That moment is the ChoicePoint.

This training develops your capacity to remain stable in that moment.

Not only for yourself -
but in the presence of another.

What You Will Learn

You will learn to:

  • Recognise patterns in real time

  • Identify projection and withdraw from it

  • Stabilise your nervous system under emotional charge

  • Stay present without collapsing or controlling

  • Understand masculine and feminine energetic structures

  • Guide others through emotional transmutation

  • Hold space without absorbing or reacting

This is not theoretical knowledge.

It is applied awareness.

Practitioner Level Means This

You are recognised as a ChoicePoint Practitioner when you can:

  • Stay centred while someone is triggered

  • Remain neutral under projection

  • Guide someone back to ownership

  • Interrupt unconscious pattern loops

  • Operate from process rather than story

This is embodied competence.

Not intellectual understanding.

Who This Is For

This training is for:

  • Coaches

  • Therapists

  • Facilitators

  • Leaders

  • Parents

  • Individuals who feel called to guide others

You do not need experience.
But you do need responsibility.

This is not passive learning.

It requires presence and devotion.

What others have to say about this process

Structure of the 3 Months

The training unfolds in three phases:

Phase 1 - Pattern Recognition
Understanding how conditioning forms and repeats.

Phase 2 - Transmutation
Learning to process emotion without projection.

Phase 3 - Facilitation
Guiding others through the same process.

Weekly live sessions.
Practical application.
Supervised integration.

No information overload.
Depth over volume.

“We are all just walking each other home“

The Outcome

By the end of this training you will:

  • Experience emotional stability under pressure

  • Understand the architecture of reaction

  • Recognise patterns immediately

  • Facilitate others without absorbing their emotion

  • Create from awareness rather than reactivity

You will not become someone else.

You will become steady.

Who we are

This work did not begin as a method.

It emerged through direct observation of pattern, projection and emotional collapse - in ourselves and in the people we worked with.

Over years of applied practice, facilitation and deep relational work, the ChoicePoint framework was refined into a precise, repeatable process.

It is not philosophy.
It is lived structure.

Vincent Cubitt

Vincent’s 30+ years of this work focuses on structural awareness, masculine and feminine polarity, and the architecture of consciousness.

His approach is direct, precise and uncompromising.

He trains individuals to recognise projection in real time and return to process without delay.

This is structural integrity.

Aris Wijnen

Aris brings depth in relational embodiment, nervous system awareness and

emotional integration.

Her work stabilises the human element inside the structure.

Where pattern meets vulnerability - she teaches how to remain present without defence.

This is embodied coherence.

Enrollment

Program begins: April 1st 2026
Duration: 3 Months

Limited intake.